Being Ghosted By Someone Is No Fun

Nov 27, 2016 | Ask The Matchmaker

Q: Hi, Chris. I recently met a man I was attracted to while having drinks at a 5-star hotel. During the week, we texted a few times and met up for a nice dinner. We had fun and enjoyed our time together. I texted him a couple days later and invited him to an art...

Boyfriend Too Good A Handyman

Nov 20, 2016 | Ask The Matchmaker

Q: Chris, I am a 42-year-old man dating a woman (age 39) for almost one-year now.  We both have great jobs and earn good incomes.  At what point do I excuse myself from doing “chores” around her house? I happen to be talented at “handyman...

He Desires Sex, She Doesn’t; What To Do

Nov 12, 2016 | Ask The Matchmaker

Q: Chris, I am a wealthy, divorced man age 58 dating a beautiful 50-year-old woman. This is long-distance and I’ve visited her every other weekend for the past 4 months. She’s sexy, sweet and intelligent – and I have fallen for her. I have one issue. We sleep...

Meet Him Now, Not Countless Phone Chats Later

Oct 1, 2016 | Ask The Matchmaker

Q: Chris, when you get to know someone over the phone, how long before you should actually meet in person if you feel a connection? ~ Allison from Dallas Hi, Allison: The answer depends if you are referring to a local date or long distance. Either way, I always advise...

Finding Love When You’re Older Can Be Tricky

Sep 11, 2016 | Ask The Matchmaker

Q. Chris, despite my positive attitude, I wonder if I am being unrealistic thinking I may find a mate in my 50’s (marriage would be ideal.)  I am age 54 and in excellent physical shape (gym!), smart (master’s degree), extremely pretty (if you like long...